Discover next-level orgasms

Our Personalise your Play article is a journey into self-discovery; so, I hope you’re ready to either learn something new about yourself or to reaffirm what you already know if you’re super self-aware. This is a fascinating topic as it can go on for ages and ages, there are so many different ways to categorise your pleasure and you don’t have to follow one linear route. The great thing about being human is that you are complex! There are lots of things you love, like and dislike that make you different from everyone else, how cool is that? This is true for everything in your life including sex, and we are going to get into making sure the pleasure you choose to partake in is true to your best self.

Here at Mintt, we don’t discriminate, and we want everyone to feel included, appreciated and catered for - this is why we don’t categorise by gender, we categorise by body part, so that no matter what gender you identify as you can find toys and resources specially curated for you. I think now would also be a good time to mention that my inbox at bettyloxley@109.70.148.169 is always open for questions, queries and suggestions. I would love to hear from you! No one is perfect and we would like our experts (you guys) to help us grow as a company that cares.

Now, let’s get into it! Our plan will address clitoral and G-spot play - within each category, I'll provide suggestions for beginners, curious and experienced toy users.

Clitoral Orgasms

For many of us, clitoral stimulation is the best way to achieve mind blowing orgasms. Not only do we have 8,000 nerve endings in our clitoris (twice as many as someone with a penis), but there is a whole network of nerve endings below the surface that you can’t even see. The small section you can see is only the tip of the iceberg, the clitoris actually extends in a wishbone shape down the sides of the labia and reaches back to meet the front wall of your vagina. Because of how deep most of it is, it can be tricky to stimulate, the key thing here is warming up the area and giving your body time to let all the blood flow there making you more turned on, sensitive and likely to orgasm. Ever had or heard of ‘fanny flutters’? That’s that blood rush I’m talking about.

Enhance clitoral orgasms with lubes and balms

If you’re looking to increase clitoral sensitivity during solo play I would recommend a sensation lube. Anything warming, tingling or even just simple lube is an absolute game changer. The silkiness and glide of lube in general is a 100% improvement to any sexy experience. If you have a friend in the bedroom with you, I’m just taking a wild guess here, but you’re going to want something edible right? Screaming O Kiss O Boo lip balm is a fab way to play with clitoris stimulating sensations, but please don’t directly eat it, it’s not that kind of edible! It comes in tingling and warming varieties. Ready to get sciencey? The ingredients that cause these effects are called blood oils, they are typically menthol and cinnamon, can you guess which is warming and which is tingling? Have you ever tried lip gloss designed to make your lips temporarily bigger? Chances are it has one of these two blood oils in, so named because it causes the blood rush we discussed earlier. Same applies to your clitoris, and we have already discussed the amazing benefits of blood flow on increased sensitivity. These lip balms are so inexpensive, I’d say buy both, try them out, and see what’s your favourite as most people tend to prefer one or the other. Once the lip balm is on your partner, they can lick and tease not only your clitoris but your lips and nipples too, taking your pleasure to the next level and closer to orgasm!

Mind blowing orgasms with clitoral toys

On to my favourite topic, toys!! You want something small, sleek and discreet, with the potential to be powerful, multiple settings and won’t get in the way. You need the Je Joue Clitoral Vibrator, it comes in a selection of colours and in each one a softer version, (great for those of us who are a little more sensitive), which can fit comfortably between two bodies.

If that was a lot, please don’t worry, I’ll break it down. Since the clitoris can be tricky to stimulate in its entirety, I would recommend getting a small vibrator, a clit stim if you will, that can send ripples through your whole body. This toy is silicone, making it super soft for a light touch or applied pressure on or around your clitoris as you get closer to climax. Make good use of the tip, sides and front for experimentation in how targeted you like your stimulation to be. It is also rechargeable, allowing for more power and quieter rumbly vibrations. On its own, this toy is UNREAL, with another toy UNREAL, with a partner UNREAL. This fab little thing is so versatile and will be your go to for a very long time. Pebbles are a sex toy favourite, they’re not too intimidating for beginners, but they can get pretty intense for those of us who want it to be, your partner will love seeing your reaction every time you use this. Great for everyone involved!

I could honestly talk about this forever, but we will stop here for now. Comment below if you want more of a feature on clitoral stimulation including suction!

G-spot Orgasms

Your G-spot is an extremely sensitive nerve bundle located on the front of your vaginal wall a few inches up; you know you have found the right spot if you can feel a slightly harder button shape that feels a tad more sensitive than everywhere else. The rest of your vaginal canal doesn’t have as many nerve endings, so the G-spot is what we really want to be targeting. It is theorised that this is an extension of your clitoris, whilst others believe that it is its own entity. Either way, stimulating your G-spot can intensify clitoral orgasms or be uniquely intense and wonderful as their own kind of orgasm.

If you are someone who enjoys internal stimulation, I would always recommend a curved G-spot toy as you won’t need to waste any time or effort having to find an angle that works for you, it’s already done! These can be vibrating or non-vibrating, the main focus here is the steady rhythmic rocking motion you can apply to the toy that increases your chances of a G-spot orgasm.
Please don’t be disheartened if G-spot orgasms are not your thing, 75% of women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. It is also a much trickier sensation to be able to relax and give in to, I had been having sex for a couple of years before I felt comfortable enough to have a G-spot orgasm.

For someone looking for a G-spot toy, Mintt has lots of options, depending on budget. Perhaps you’re considering a high-quality toy that isn’t too expensive? In this case I would recommend the Rocks Off Giamo Divine. Not only is this a gorgeous start to or addition to a toy collection it's beautifully curved shaft is ergonomically designed to be tilted to perfectly hit that G-spot. It vibrates, pulsates and the deep low rumble of the motor provides a full body orgasm. It's fully rechargeable and made from silicone (2 must have features for my toy collection) and, whether you’re using it solo or you have a beautiful assistant to use it on you, you couldn’t possibly go wrong with this toy. Unless you’re not using lube of course, then you could.

I hope you’ve gained some knowledge today on the clitoris, the G-spot and a few different ways to stimulate them. If you already knew all of this, don’t you worry, check out our other articles on enhancing your orgasms. If you were here for the penis and anal sections in order to do them justice, check back later for part 2!

See you next time Minties, I hope this has inspired you to get yourself or someone else a couple of treats...